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I have watched guys return to women they knew were unstable, were running a three-ring circus of their lives, erratic from drug use, over-reactive, and/or melodramatic. On the other hand, jerks (male and female) come in different flavors and MANY of them charm and manipulate.
Most of the guys lamenting all the crazy women out there are drawn to them like doms to rope and latex. This makes it much more difficult to detect, so the datee doesn’t always realize what they are really walking into.
The longer I date, the less I believe those statements.
Though they may appear to have nothing in common at first glance, upon further reflection, they do share some similarities. And, of course, said nice guys share their frustration at the hypocrisy of women’s words and actions. Heck, I was almost duped by an insincere charmer who was actually a manipulator and user.
As a past jerk and being a guy — meaning I’ve spent plenty of time meeting and hanging out with other dudes who are big jerks — I think I have pretty good experience and some of the best insight when it comes to detecting one in the wild, or even someone who you might think you know intimately. I understand it can be difficult discerning a singularity from a lasting character flaw, but usually after hanging out with someone long enough, you should have enough data points to make a sound conclusion. So desperate that people are willing to overlook huge red flags waving in front of their faces.
The craziest women I know always have guys circling around. Having said that, I totally acknowledge that some women could be in a room with 99 nice guys and 1 bad boy…and they would pick the jerk every time. Upon further reflection, I see one major difference between the crazy girl, the bad boy, and the jerk.But please stop Bonnie was off the dating market from 1998 (when she met her now ex-husband) till early 2014.She has been online dating on-and-off for over 4 years.At least give a few of those women/men a chance as an opportunity for you to grow into a new, potentially healthier dating phase.Look, if you dig a crazy chick or a bad boy, that’s your prerogative.